diff --git a/README.md b/README.md
index 0fc4c36c..20560b96 100644
--- a/README.md
+++ b/README.md
@@ -85,8 +85,9 @@ Canonical user memory is the first existing file in this order: `~/.agents/AGENT
 `$CLAUDE_CONFIG_DIR/CLAUDE.md` (default `~/.claude/CLAUDE.md`), and
 `$CODEX_HOME/AGENTS.md` (default `~/.codex/AGENTS.md`). User-level skill extractions
 default to `~/.agents/skills`, with a warning if Claude's active `skills` path is a
-real directory rather than the usual symlink. See [Configuration](#configuration) for
-using an existing harness-loaded directory instead.
+real directory rather than the usual symlink. Backpass leaves that directory untouched:
+see [Configuration](#configuration) for the scope-specific settings and manual merge
+guidance.
 
 In user scope every `add`, `rewrite`, or `remove` edit also clears `minGapProjects`
 (default `1`): the distinct projects behind its own quotes, counted from the gap
@@ -735,8 +736,13 @@ regular settings; its path and user-only settings include `memoryFiles`, `skills
 `skillsDirs`, `minGapProjects` (default `1`), and these discovery controls:
 
 `skillsDir` defaults to `.agents/skills`. To use an existing harness-loaded directory
-instead, such as `.claude/skills`, configure that path; a missing configured directory
-falls back to the default. Backpass normalizes path separators and trailing slashes.
+instead, such as `.claude/skills`, configure that path: use `--skills-dir <path>` for one
+run, `skillsDir` in `.backpassrc.json` for project scope, or `skillsDir` under the `user`
+block in `$XDG_CONFIG_HOME/backpass/config.json` (default `~/.config/backpass/config.json`)
+for user scope. A missing configured directory falls back to the default. Backpass leaves
+a real `.claude/skills` directory untouched and recommends manually merging new skill
+directories after checking for conflicts. It never recommends replacing that directory
+with a symlink. Backpass normalizes path separators and trailing slashes.
 
 ```json
 {
diff --git a/src/skills.js b/src/skills.js
index c458c34d..f7be3d65 100644
--- a/src/skills.js
+++ b/src/skills.js
@@ -385,11 +385,18 @@ function invalidSkillsDir(configuredDir) {
 function claudeSkillsDirWarning(claudeSkillsDir = CLAUDE_SKILLS_LINK, target = CLAUDE_SKILLS_LINK_TARGET) {
   return (
     `${claudeSkillsDir} is a real directory, not a symlink to ${target}; ` +
-    `left untouched. Claude will not see skills written to ${CANONICAL_SKILLS_DIR} until you ` +
-    `merge it in and replace it with the symlink (ln -s ${target} ${claudeSkillsDir}).`
+    `left untouched. Backpass writes new skills to ${CANONICAL_SKILLS_DIR}, which Claude will not load ` +
+    `through ${claudeSkillsDir}. To write directly to the existing directory, use ` +
+    `--skills-dir ${shellQuote(claudeSkillsDir)} for one run, set "skillsDir": "${claudeSkillsDir}" in .backpassrc.json ` +
+    `for project scope, or set it under the "user" block in $XDG_CONFIG_HOME/backpass/config.json for user ` +
+    `scope. Otherwise merge new skill directories manually after checking for conflicts.`
   );
 }
 
+function shellQuote(value) {
+  return `'${value.replaceAll("'", "'\\''")}'`;
+}
+
 function inspectClaudeSkillsLink(repoRoot, claudeSkillsDir = CLAUDE_SKILLS_LINK) {
   const link = path.isAbsolute(claudeSkillsDir) ? claudeSkillsDir : path.join(repoRoot, claudeSkillsDir);
   let stat;
diff --git a/test/skills.test.js b/test/skills.test.js
index e5a9e407..2fa962a1 100644
--- a/test/skills.test.js
+++ b/test/skills.test.js
@@ -229,6 +229,11 @@ test("a real .claude/skills directory is warned about and never clobbered", () =
   assert.equal(resolved.dir, CANONICAL_SKILLS_DIR);
   assert.equal(resolved.warnings.length, 1);
   assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /\.claude\/skills is a real directory/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /--skills-dir '\.claude\/skills'/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /"skillsDir": "\.claude\/skills"/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /"user" block in \$XDG_CONFIG_HOME\/backpass\/config\.json/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /merge new skill directories manually/);
+  assert.doesNotMatch(resolved.warnings[0], /ln -s|replace it/);
 
   const result = writeSkill(root, SKILL);
   assert.equal(result.warnings.length, 1);
@@ -240,6 +245,21 @@ test("a real .claude/skills directory is warned about and never clobbered", () =
   assert.ok(fs.existsSync(path.join(root, CANONICAL_SKILLS_DIR, "release-signing", "SKILL.md")));
 });
 
+test("quotes spaces in the one-run skills directory guidance", () => {
+  const root = tmpRepo();
+  const claudeSkillsDir = ".claude config/skills";
+  fs.mkdirSync(path.join(root, claudeSkillsDir), { recursive: true });
+
+  const resolved = resolveOverflowTarget(root, CANONICAL_SKILLS_DIR, { claudeSkillsDir });
+
+  assert.equal(resolved.warnings.length, 1);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /--skills-dir '\.claude config\/skills'/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /project scope/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /user.*scope/);
+  assert.match(resolved.warnings[0], /merge new skill directories manually after checking for conflicts/);
+  assert.doesNotMatch(resolved.warnings[0], /ln -s|replace it/);
+});
+
 test("applyDecisions writes accepted extractions through the skills layout and surfaces warnings", () => {
   const root = tmpRepo();
   fs.writeFileSync(path.join(root, "AGENTS.md"), "# Memory\n\n- Sign releases with the key.\n");